What Women Really Want From You In Bed
All heterosexual men are divided into two groups: those who consider themselves consummate masters in bed, behave too confidently and sometimes disrespectful, and those who are ready to listen to girls and satisfy them first of all. Learn more to get more details.
We compiled our list of 10 wishes for women in bed for the second group. This is his target audience. But for the most part it will be useful to those who are simply delighted with their libido and themselves in general. You can think as much as you like that the ladies are having a great time in bed with you, but in fact, only you (from yourself) are enjoying themselves. We hope someday your girlfriend will have the courage to tell you what she really wants from you. Until then, read our list. There will definitely be something that she is embarrassed to tell you about.
1. Ask questions
Ideal spontaneous and unspecified sex happens only in the movies: a couple meets and immediately guesses how to please each other. It's not like that in life. But there is nothing to be ashamed of. Ask your girlfriend what she would like you to do and you will immediately see how horny she is.
2. Play music
This is a great way to add mood, relieve you of the awkward silence and funny sounds that are inevitable during sex (spanking lovers, we are about you). If you are too lazy to make your own playlist, go to Spotify, which is now in Russia. They took care of everything for you.
3. Watch for hints
Remember, in Friends, Monica told Chandler where her seven erogenous zones were? Everyone has them, just not the fact that they are in the same place as Monica. Therefore, mentally track how the girl's body reacts to your actions. When you reach the erogenous zones, she will begin to wriggle or do something similar. In any case, you will know that you have found what you were looking for.
4. Take the girls in your arms
Many will feel like the heroines of beautiful love films with sensual bed scenes and will definitely appreciate your initiative. There is always a chance that someone like that will not like it. Then get ready for the screeching of your beloved with requests to let go and return her to her place. We advise you to write off this is not a failed experiment. But the likelihood that such an adventure will fail is small.
5. Change location
Even not the most successful sex can bring a lot of impressions and pleasure if it happens in an unusual place. It is not necessary to do this in the elevator, it is enough to move to the kitchen table or shower (although this is a slippery business). And if you don't live alone, rent a hotel.
6. Check the environment
Periodically think about whether the girl likes everything. You can even subtly ask about this a couple of times for sex. Nobody's ardor will cool it down. Few things are sexier than a caring and informed man.
7. Experiment with poses
If your lady saddles you for the 70th time, you are unlikely to get new impressions. And you won’t learn anything new about your preferences and bodies. But if you change your position - everything can be. Studying the Kama Sutra is not necessary. Just try some fun with Flatiron, Swing, and Ballerina. If anything, in the Kamasutra these are positions number 95, 96 and 130.
8. Compliment
Let's be honest, naked - we are as vulnerable as possible, even if we are confident in the attractiveness of our bodies. So it would be nice to cheer up your girlfriend. Dithyrambs for five minutes do not need to be started, it will only tire you and add awkwardness. Just whisper in her ear that she looks great and turns you on. So you yourself will get more aroused, and allow her to behave more relaxed.
9. Bring toys with you
Even if you are a conservative, forget about your biases at least once. Sex toys really improve the quality of sex, making it much more fun. Otherwise, so many gadgets would simply not have been invented as unnecessary. The main thing is to find the device that suits both of you. If anything, almost all girls are divided into bullet vibrator lovers and anal plug fans. We advise you to discuss with your lady which team she is on. The conversation promises to be fun.
10. Get a Dirty Talk
We are not about Jason Derulo's song, but about dirty and vulgar conversations in bed. In this art, there are almost not a single pro, so it's okay if vulgar words make you laugh. To begin with, try to articulate everything that you feel from the touch of your partner, and describe his actions. Most importantly, do not follow the example of the hero of the song Dirty Talk. Then the case will definitely fail.